When we are lovesick we often suffer from things such as longing for our partner or we hurt because of unmet expectations. We want to receive the same as we give,forgetting that loving means giving unconditionally.
We also believe we can change people, because we feel that our partner is our property and that s/he should conform to our needs that are often based on our own emotional wounds and perception of relationships.
This obviously is not unconditional love, it is love with conditions.
In love relationships two people come together to share experiences and intimate emotional situations.
When they separate they will follow their evolutionary path; thus when a relationship ends, it is common to feel certain emotions of failure and guilt, for the illusions that existed, for all that was created together.
But if we understand that this partnership was part of the learning, both for our own development and that of our partner, then we start seeing the separation in a different light and we can start appreciating the learning instead of seeing the failure
If you separated from your partner or if a present relationship is not working out then consider it as an opportunity to grow and accept the challenge to change and move on, with or without your partner.
It is important to remember that we have everything we need and that the essence of our life is love. When we focus on "receiving" we will live conflicts and expressions of hostility towards ourselves and others. When we focus on "giving" we will live a sensation of peace and unlimited joy. Giving means extending love without conditions, without expectations and without boundaries.
We can find peace of mind if we pay attention to giving and do not desire to receive something from the others or to change them.
The Universe always confronts us with a new opportunity to learn about love.
We also believe we can change people, because we feel that our partner is our property and that s/he should conform to our needs that are often based on our own emotional wounds and perception of relationships.
This obviously is not unconditional love, it is love with conditions.
In love relationships two people come together to share experiences and intimate emotional situations.
When they separate they will follow their evolutionary path; thus when a relationship ends, it is common to feel certain emotions of failure and guilt, for the illusions that existed, for all that was created together.
But if we understand that this partnership was part of the learning, both for our own development and that of our partner, then we start seeing the separation in a different light and we can start appreciating the learning instead of seeing the failure
If you separated from your partner or if a present relationship is not working out then consider it as an opportunity to grow and accept the challenge to change and move on, with or without your partner.
It is important to remember that we have everything we need and that the essence of our life is love. When we focus on "receiving" we will live conflicts and expressions of hostility towards ourselves and others. When we focus on "giving" we will live a sensation of peace and unlimited joy. Giving means extending love without conditions, without expectations and without boundaries.
We can find peace of mind if we pay attention to giving and do not desire to receive something from the others or to change them.
The Universe always confronts us with a new opportunity to learn about love.
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